Update 9-12-19

I texted my son about 9-11. He is the one that called me that horrible morning as Bob and I were getting ready for the Chamber meeting. Tuesday. He texted back (I should be happy about that. At least I know he is alive.) a very short text about that it was not a good morning. I think he sent it because it was phrased like he would. I know narcissists are capable of anything so I wouldn't put it past her. I have done enough reading now to know she is a classic narcissist, overt and covert. He is in for a real mess once Po can't do her thing, or she gets really sick, or she dies (75). It will all boil over then. He has lost all of his family and friends. She has isolated him.